NURTURING YOUR AUTISTIC YOUNG PERSON: A Parent’s Handbook to Supporting Newly Diagnosed Teens and Pre-Teens
Cathy Wassell

RIGHTS SOLD: World All Languages Jessica Kingsley Publishing

Cathy Wassell is the founder & CEO of The Autistic Girls Network, a charity whose mission is to support autistic women, girls and their families by providing education, resources and community, helping them develop a positive sense of self. She is a neurodivergent mother to two neurodivergent children, runs a digital marketing agency, is a Mentor for the Mayor of London’s Business Growth Programme and has recently completed her Masters in Autism at the University of Birmingham.

Cathy is passionate about changing the narrative around autism and neurodivergence in general, to get rid of the medical language of deficit and realise the strengths of all the neurotypes which make up human neurodiversity.

Her first book, Nurturing Your Autistic Young Person, has been an absolute lifeline for parents, educators and health professionals in supporting newly diagnosed young people. Designed to help parents become fully informed and ensure a nurturing and positive environment for our autistic young people, this is a guide with a focus on difference - not deficit.

Cathy is currently working on both her second book and her PhD.

I wish I had read this incredible book many years ago. My daughter - aged 13 - had a late diagnosis and this (hand)book is exactly what I need to be able to understand and support her better. Cathy Wassell’s book seems to have everything covered from co-occurring conditions to sensory stuff, with lots of practical advice on how to nurture and advocate for our autistic young people. I think this should be on the national curriculum - a must-read for anyone who comes into regular contact with autistic people - that would be... everyone.
— 5 Star Reader Review
This is the best book on autism I have ever read. So many light bulb moments both as a teacher but more as a mother of a daughter whose masking has convinced many professionals. It is written with compassion, understanding and a wealth of knowledge that is easily translated into how to be the best possible support you can be for our amazing neurodiverse children. I know this is a book I will keep coming back to as a mother and a teacher. This is a book that will change lives.
— 5 Star Reader Review

What the professionals say:

Cathy's book is up to date, accurate, astonishingly rich, full of invaluable information, and I would put it in the bracket of imperative reading for any parent of an autistic child - and anyone who wants to have a better understanding of autistic children. I have rarely read such a superb autism-related book - more than highly recommended! -- Luke Beardon, Senior Lecturer in Autism at Sheffield Hallam


This marvelous book is like a trusted friend who can relieve your worries and confusion while explaining the most promising approaches to raising a happy, healthy, and creative autistic young person. It condenses a tremendous amount of useful information into an engaging and friendly read. I'll be buying multiple copies to give away. -- Steve Silberman, author of NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity

When a parent is told their child is autistic they instantly enter a world of misinformation and bias, often propagated by big organisations who claim to want to "help". Many parents inadvertently end up following advice that causes harm. Cathy's book offers the practical insight and guiding hand to help parents of autistic children navigate in what can be a confusing landscape as they journey to understand and embrace their child's neurotype. -- Joanna Grace, author and founder of The Sensory Projects

Cathy's lived experience shines through - from the conversational tone and reassurance offered to the reader; the book is an easy to use, warm and wide-ranging guide to parenting an autistic teenager. I can see that this book will help countless families, and will be relevant for years to come. -- Sarah Wild, Headteacher, Limpsfield Grange School

This guidebook does what it says! All of us need nurturing, we also need help to find our way. For our young people this book maps the way forward from wherever you are on the autism journey. It aids the avoiding of potholes, wrong turns and dead ends to open up a road to less stress and increased confidence. -- Dr. Wenn B. Lawson (PhD) CPsych AFBPsS

Autistic children and young people thrive when adults in their lives understand and support them effectively, but for adults new to the world of autism this can pose a confusing challenge. This wonderful book provides the answers needed by parents or teachers of a newly identified autistic child or young person. Accessible and comprehensive, full of practical examples and strategies, the neurodiversity-affirmative approach outlined here will promote wellbeing and help prevent future mental health problems for autistic young people. -- Dr. Mary Doherty, founder of "Autistic Doctors International" and “Autistic Med Students”

Parents and teachers of autistic children, you need Cathy's book on your bookshelf! I'm genuinely excited about the positive change this book may bring in ensuring parents and professionals understand autistic young people better. -- Georgina Durrant, author of ‘100 Ways Your Child Can Learn Through Play’ and Founder of The SEN Resources Blog.

Cathy provides the information parents really want to find when they seek to understand how best to support autistic young people. This book offers a wealth of easy-to-follow explanations, reflections, and practical tips which are clearly based upon Cathy's extensive knowledge and lived experience. This is sincere parent-to-parent peer support in book form. -- Beth Bodycote, creator of the 'Not Fine In School' Facebook group

Everything in this book resonates on so many levels. A must whether you're a parent, teacher or someone who, like me, reads it and is still astounded by how much feeling different shouldn't have to be so difficult. Affirming, passionate and timely if we are to explode the medicalised myths around autism. -- Claire Farmer, local government SEND advisor and co-Chair of Autistic Girls Network.

This is a hugely informative book that addresses with empathy and sensitivity the issues that autistic teens and pre-teens may have. The emphasis on strengths and differences rather than 'deficit' or 'disability' is brilliant and it is an inclusive read, embracing as it does, the neurodiverse universe. I am sure it will be a reassuring, supportive and invaluable resource for any family at the start of their autism journey. -- Elizabeth Shea, Consultant Clinical Psychologist

No stone has been left unturned in this wonderfully accessible, comprehensive cornucopia guide for parents and carers. The inclusion of 'real people' voices in the case studies throughout is particularly powerful and combined with the almost limitless information, advice and resources, this book is a must have for anyone wishing to support their late diagnosed teen or young adult. -- Ellie Costello, Director, Square Peg CIC

This book is a fantastic addition to the literature out there on how to understand and support autistic young people. Getting your diagnosis after the early years still involves all kinds of difficulties, and Cathy Wassell talks through these in a friendly and informed manner, with personal insights and case studies which illustrate the challenges and the joys of being autistic. There is a wealth of knowledge and advice inside which will be invaluable for anyone working to help autistic young people thrive. -- Dr. Felicity Sedgewick, Senior Lecturer in Psychology of Education at Bristol University

This fascinating book provides an up-to-date and comprehensive overview of autism for parents wishing to learn about autism and how to support their autistic young person. While not shying away from the challenges that an autistic young person may encounter, Cathy adopts a strengths-based approach that focuses on embracing neurodiversity and nurturing the young person to develop their true identity. The book is very readable, and the resources provided at the end allow parents to explore areas further if they wish. -- Judith Hebron, Associate Professor in Psychology with Education at the University of Leeds

This book will help any parent and their autistic daughter understand autism and prepare for an assessment. The book is full of practical information about autism which allows you to explore together your daughter's own profile on the spectrum. The book is easy to read and would enable you to gather all the evidence you could require towards the diagnosis assessment. What I love about this book, is that it also gives you ways you can support your autistic daughter, now, before the official diagnosis. It is common for people to worry about doing the 'wrong' thing and as you understand your daughter, you will find the 'Living well with autism' section really helpful and positive. Because our autistic girls should feel positive about who they are and the future that is ahead of them. -- Lynn McCann, Autism Specialist Teacher, Trainer and Author

Positivity comes through on every page, and the inclusion of case studies from 'real people' only enhances the validity of this book. You feel from reading this book that the author is not only knowledgeable but that she is writing from the heart - it definitely is an au-some book! -- Theresa Baldry-Lee, family support adviser